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Anjali Tendulkar (formerly Anjali Mehta ,born November 10, 1967), a daughter of Gujarati industrialist Anand Mehta and Annaben Mehta  was practicing medicine while Sachin had just begun his cricketing career. The two of them first met at the Mumbai International Airport. Sachin was returning from his first International cricket tour in 1990 while Anjali was at the airport to receive her mother. They both took an instant liking to each other on the first time they met.

Anjali being a dedicated student was much involved in studies and was very less interested in cricket. Her knowledge about sports and particularly cricket was faint.

Anjali Tendulkar- “I think what he liked about me was that I knew nothing about cricket when I first met him. I didn’t even know who Sachin was.”

Sachin immediately fell in love with Anjali who was six years older to him. The impact of first meeting was so big in nature that he decided to make her his life partner. After the first meeting at airport, Sachin got impatient and wanted to meet Anjali again. Sachin shared his excitement with fellow cricketer and close buddy Vinod Kambli. Both of them planned to meet Anjali. At that time, medico Anjali was doing internship in a Delhi hospital. Sachin fakeMade for Each other :)d himself to be a patient in an effort to meet Anjali. Since then, both of them started seeing each other.

Being as famous as he was right from the beginning of his career, Sachin Tendulkar could get very few instances to go out on uninterrupted dates with Anjali. When Sachin announced his engagement to Anjali Tendulkar in 1994, the very private couple managed to stay away from the media glare for a year, until they got married at the Jewel of India, Worli  on May 24, 1995. Though the press was not allowed in, after the ceremony the smiling couple posed for hundreds of waiting photographers and camera-men.

They were blessed with  two children, Sara (born October 12, 1997), and Arjun (born September 24, 1999). After marriage,Anjali Tendulkar left her career of being a successful pediatrician to live a happy married life with her husband. She maintains that it would have been difficult for her to maintain both at a time. She also says that she has no regrets whatsoever of leaving her profession as taking care of her husband and children gives her the greatest joy.

21bad1Anjali Tendulkar says, “I’ve not known any other person in my life except Sachin. I understand him so well. So whether I am his girlfriend or his wife, it’s the same thing, just an extension of that bond.” 

Sachin says, “Anjali actually taught me to thank for what the God has given me and for what the God has not given me.” 

Sachin Tendulkar has had several cricket partnerships through his 24-year career. The one he cherishes the most in his life though is the ‘partnership’ with his wife. An emotional Tendulkar thanked Anjali for standing by him throughtout his career which ended at Wankhede with his 200th Test . “The most beautiful thing happened to me in 1990 when I met my wife Anjali. Those were the most wonderful years,” he said.

“Being a doctor, there was a wonderful career ahead of her. She told me when we wanted to have a family that I should concentrate on cricket and she will take care of everything. Thanks for being there. You are the best partnership I have had in my life.”

Anjali had tears in her eyes when Tendulkar was making his speech as a packed Wankhede cheered his every word. The Little Master went on to thank his in-laws too for supporting him. “My in-laws have been loving and caring. It is so important to have a strong family. They allowed me to marry Anjali, so thank you very much,” he said.

Tendulkar – who played his 200th and final Test in front of home fans, began his speech by thanking his parents, siblings and his first coach before a solemn promise to his children that he will make up for all the lost time and be there for Arjun (14) and Sara (16).

Anjali Tendulkar said  that it would be difficult to imagine her husband Sachin without cricket as the legend is all set to end his 24-year fairytale journey here at the Wankhede Stadium after the second cricket Test against the West Indies.

The love story of Sachin and Anjali Tendulkar is surely inspiring to a lot of young couples. They set an example of a strong and committed marriage. Being the lovable and down to earth person Sachin is, our cricket crazy nation of India wishes the couple- the best, always! We hope their love meets eternity and their dedication towards each other increases with each passing day! 

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Recently , I went to blog as well as facebook page posts and found something which clicked my mind and I thought to share with you all.

“His entire life will be empty of pleasures. That knowledge is the only “revenge” I need.” – A survivor after loving a psychopath.

You may not know what is psychopath? And what are they..? They are exactly like us but a shallow human being or more offensive terms you may use.  🙂

So here I begin to describe their symptoms of behaviors-

  • During the relationship, you tried to be compassionate, easy-going, and forgiving. You never could have known that the person you loved was actively using these things against you.
  • They will cheat, lie, insult, and degrade. But you are expected to remain perfect. They will also mirror your greatest fantasies, playing whatever role is necessary to win your heart.
  • They will call you needy after intentionally ignoring you for three days straight. They once focused all of their attention on you, but now they post ambiguous videos and statuses to make you doubt your place in their heart.
  • When idealizing, they make you feel special by telling you how much better you are than these people. When devaluing, they use these comparisons to hurt you. You put more time, energy, and thought into it than ever before. And in turn, you were rewarded with the nastiest, most painful experience of your life. Everything you did was perfect to them. This put you on Cloud 9, preparing you for the identity erosion. By keeping them on your mind at all times, you fall into a state of desperate love. This is unhealthy, and not a sign that the person you feel so strongly about is actually worthy of your love. Your mind convinces you that if you feel so powerfully, then they must be the only person who will ever make you feel that way. And when you lose that person, your world completely falls apart. You enter a state of panic & devastation. Your happiness started to rely on this person’s opinion on you.
  • Smirks when you try to express yourself. Teasing becomes the primary mode of communication. They subtly belittle your intelligence and achievements. If you point this out, they call you hypersensitive and crazy.
  • You apologize and forgive quickly; otherwise you know they’ll lose interest in you. Their demand for adoration is insatiable. You thought you were the only one who could make them happy, but the truth is: no one can fill the void of a psychopath’s soul.
  • You do everything you can to hang onto it, while they are doing everything in their power to keep you just barely starved. Not only do they cheat on you – they happily wave it in your face. They brag about it, trying to prove how happy they are with your replacement. They carry none of the usual shame & guilt that comes with cheating. They are thrilled to be posting pictures and telling their friends how happy they are.
  • They will leave you alone with your thoughts, planting subtle hints and suggestions over social networking to encourage your paranoia. You will run through everything you’ve done in the relationship, blaming yourself for your feelings & emotions. You will wake up in the middle of the night, heart racing as you hope for a text from them. Nothing. You log into Facebook and see them chatting away with friends and exes. They’re not unavailable—they’re ignoring you.
  • You might even feel strongly enough to suggest a break, but you will never follow through with it for more than a few hours. You will think you can out-ignore them, remaining calm and collected like nothing is wrong. But they will always win this game. Because they do not need your attention—they have already found someone else.
  • Your emotions are just a bothersome speed bump in their latest romantic venture. They will never tell you this. They will just continue to read your desperate text messages, ignoring you without another word. They will lash out and accuse you of being obnoxious, crazy, and clingy. They will refuse to discuss anything over the phone or in person, unless it happens entirely on their terms. The abuse is no longer covert. Their contempt for you is unmistakable.
  • The “crazier” you become, the more evidence they have to gain sympathy from their friends and new target. They use your increasingly unstable reactions to groom the latest victim.
  • But despite all of this, they will not dump you. Not yet. They’re saving that for the right moment.

 

After a run-in with a psychopath, you will feel insane, exhausted, drained, shocked, suicidal, and empty. If they stop communicating with you for several days, it’s your fault for not knowing about the plans they never told you about. There will always be a self-victimizing excuse to go along with this.

You try to explain this to friends and family members – no one really seems to get it. This is why validation matters. When you come together with others who have experienced the same thing as you, you discover you were not crazy. You were not alone in this inhuman experience.

It’s like your spirit has completely gone away. You feel numb to everything and everyone around you. The things that once made you happy now make you feel absolutely nothing at all. You worry that your encounter with this monster has destroyed your ability to empathize, feel and care.

Ultimately, you will leave this experience with an unexpected wisdom about the people around you. Your spirit will return stronger than ever before, refusing to be treated that way again. You may encounter toxic people throughout your life, but you won’t let them stay for very long. You don’t have time for mind games & manipulation. You seek out kind, honest, and compassionate individuals. You know you deserve nothing less.

 

This new found strength is the greatest gift of the psychopathic experience. And it is worth every second of the recovery process, because it will serve you for the rest of your life.

Your boundaries are returning (or perhaps being formed for the very first time) and you can’t believe you let yourself sink so low. You realize how much you lost. Not just friends, money, life experience, etc, but also your innocence. Your kind understanding of the world has been shattered. Instead of giving people the benefit of the doubt, you suddenly have trouble trusting. You will experience constant feeling of dread and tightness in your heart.

Deep in mind, there is another kind of vulnerability: the good kind. Your dreams—sexual fantasies, life goals, romantic endeavors, perhaps raising a family… These are all beautiful, good vulnerabilities that make you human. Do not let the psychopathic experience change these things. Next to your list of insecurities, make a list of your dreams. You must never mistake your passions for flaws. And likewise, your empathetic nature is not a weakness—although the psychopath certainly makes you question that.

 

Tujhe bhoola dena, manzoor hai,

bhool jana tera…bhoolau kaise?

Teri mohabbat kho gayi,

Mujhko ye gum hai;

Tujhpar apni mohabbat ka, hakk jatau kaise?

 

Rrm-e-wafa tere naam ki pee hai,

Jehen mein nasha hai, Tauba- tauba;

Phir hosh mein..Aau kaise?

 

Andheri lagan se, roshan tha dil mera;

Laga ab, kalank.. chudau kaise?

Mohabbat ka naam, de dekar;

Loota hai kya-2… batau kaise?

 

Rrm-e-wafa tere naam ki pee hai,

Jehen mein nasha hai, Tauba- tauba;

Phir hosh mein..Aau kaise?

 

Jo tujhse na, nibha ab tak;

Main kisi aur se .. nibhau kaise?

Bada najuk hai ,dil mera

Darta hai… ab dil ko lagau kaise?

 

Rrm-e-wafa tere naam ki pee hai,

Jehen mein nasha hai, Tauba- tauba;

Phir hosh mein..Aau kaise?

©Tanya Singh

Geera kar palkein bheegi-bheegi;

badi masoomiyat se karna, ye jurm tera..

jajbaton ko peekar..

khurachna ye lab, mukuraney ke liye…

Pighalti rahi surat, teri ankhon mein kisi ki;

tujhe e-lm bhi nahi, main ho gaya hoon tera..

wafa karna ab, majboori hai meri

hai safar andhere ka, umeed-e-mohabbat ke liye..

Tu sar rakhe mere seene par, kisi din

hai us raat ko, intezaar tera..

jo kat jaye umar, teri khamoshi ki

hoon bekarar, aawaaz mein asar pane ke liye..

Atonement
Pretending everything is okay is a good defense mechanism for not having to take a closer look at our feelings. But sometimes you can’t make your heart quiet. Even if you pretend not to have heard what it tells you, it will always be there inside you, repeating to you what you’re thinking about life and about the world. You will never be able to escape from your heart. So it’s better to listen to what it has to say.

It has its dreams, it gets emotional, and it’s become passionate over a boy of frigidity .It asks things of me, and it keeps me from sleeping many nights, when I’m thinking about life, scars and apologies of my choices and decisions. The countless pieces of this heart tell the story of downfalls. I could see all the difficulties it has been dealing with, all the bad news it has been getting, all the disappointments and delays it had to face in the most important areas of life. I clearly saw the bad choices it made, the errors it committed in the past that today are forcing it to deprive itself of almost everything. It can’t tolerate lies, betrayal, or hypocrisy. The flip side of the coin is that it often thinks about others before it thinks about itself. There were people who wouldn’t hesitate to take advantage of its kindness, and appropriated the fruits of its efforts for themselves. In fact, it has frequently been the target of scammers, even among those who are close to it. Now, it wonders what it did wrong to deserve this.

I really feel guilty of letting you break like this! Things in life happen for a reason that is not always known to us, we do not have to always know everything. I understand some of my mistakes are not forgiven even if I accept I did them. I don’t regret about the falls I just want to atone for rest of my life.

I heard your innocence crying –“Suck my last breath, and catch my flying soul .Teach me at once, and learn of me to die. Come and heal me. I dare you sincerely.” I tried several times to give a new dimension, direction and determination for a purpose to walk with me again. My dreams and desires have always made you to reach peak and fall down beneath the earth. And at end I remained as culprit who killed that innocence with kindness. I may be regarded as harsh and arbitrary, but this is only because I expected a great deal more from you than I may have been able to provide. Every desire, uttered or unexpressed, is a demand. I often startled by having a wish suddenly fulfilled. The closer I got to the realization of my dreams, the more difficult things became. Now, you already know all you need to know. I am only going to point you in the direction of execution what you know.

Things Dont go away
It’s Hard to nourish and win your trust with my philosophy that-“This world always needs loving heart, and it always amply rewards them with all the good things of the world. If you are good, honest, just and true, you will do a great amount of good in the world and reap the richest awards. By letting your higher or best nature dominate your lower nature you will draw to you anything you desire.”

But each thing has to transform itself into something better. There is a place that you are to fill and no one else can fill, something you are to do, which no one else can do. You have learned, early in life, what is your reason for being with me. Reuse the past, recycle the present and save the future.
Bad things happen to good heart all the time. It’s not fair. But if you can learn to see it from the right angle, those injuries, over time, can become vehicles for something greater for you. Let your scars make you stronger, wiser and more empathetic. Let them deepen who you are, not shield you from wanting to feel things in your future. And let them build you a better life not confine you to a ruined one. Like virgins wish without any fear to speed the soft intercourse from soul to soul and sense the warmth within I wish to persuade you to speed the warm fuzzies from resuscitate to resilience without losing the warmth of hope and potential to take the road uphill.

I am sorry that I took so long to listen and speak. Even though some blames are on you. I will take that blames from you. I don’t promise to fix you. But I promise, I shall never ever allow to lose your everything in this journey. You shall reach the highest echelons of success that no one else can even doubt you were broken and that’s my atonement. Life is not about denying the scars from our past, but about weaving them into our present lives and making what good we can of it.Innocent but Incorrect expectations can be easily corrected. My fragile mind in atonement closes my willing eyes and one human tear drops in hope of being forgiven. May your each slice always grow in wisdom and in my love.

A learned journal(This text, which I found on the Internet. I did not write it, but I think worth reproducing here)

I’ve learned that maturity had more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I’ve learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I’ve learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don’t even know you.

I’ve learned that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry.

I’ve learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I’ve learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re downhill are the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learned that your family won’t always be there for you.

I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them;

I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back;

I’ve learned that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean that they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned that no matter how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take it’s place.

I’ve learned that no matter how you try to protect your loved ones, they will eventually get hurt and you will get hurt in the process.

I’ve learned that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings and standing up for what you believe.

She was brave enough to bear the pain alone
Never tell any friend nor loved ones at home

She was brave enough to fight for life alone
Not even one has been informed

She did it so for a big reason

For her great love and compassion.

Touching lives everywhere

She went away up there

Her memories will stay forever.

Her wings spread so far and wide

Joining the Great Kingdom of GOD.

She went to bed with peace of mind

With good-night kisses pure and kind

She left the strength of mighty oak

Some childhood thoughts she never spoke

For what was lost, so much was gained

More joy she brought than grief or pain

I saw her mark upon a tree

And underneath a bandaged knee

She walked away but left her worth

On footsteps tread upon the earth

The greatest gift she gave the world

Was when her little hands unfurled

She left within each trembling heart

A love that never will depart..

Treasured days you shared together

Lasting long after you have gone.

Precious moments Trapped

in the corners of my mind,

These gifts you left behind.

P.S. -:This Poem Is Written about a girl who was living after her death within the memories of all who knows her.Though the character is imaginary.. but Its a lesson to all of us. Try To provide such moments to your life and develop such atmosphere that Whenever You are remembered ..Its always Start and end With Your Good Qualities.

Those Jagged Edged days..There is goodness in the world, that even the river of tears cannot erase.
There is love in the world, that the numbed armies of fear can not destroy.

Sometimes that goodness is everywhere apparent. It pours from the heart of every moment. From the light of every smile.

On those soft days, love hides in the eaves to drop like sweet honey on your forehead and sings her lilting lullabies in the arms of the winds.

Go inside yourself. Find a speck, a splinter of beauty to be grateful for.
‘Yes’, the day has worn you. And ‘Yes’ our mistakes have been so many.
But say ‘Thank you’ anyway.

Take account of all that is in your possession.

A mind. A heart. A body.

A life that breathes, even if for just one more day.

Now count the eyes that have smiled
at you on your wild journey,

the hands that have held you tenderly
the ears that have listened,
the prayers that have been made on your behalf.

The heaving waves that find their echo
in the tides of your breathing,

The little birds that have sung
you their songs,

The stars which have been a lamp
to your path,and are your rightful inheritance.

Count unexpected laughter,Count undeserved grace,

Count Passion and Love making and Dreams yet to be born,
And bow your head and say ‘thank you’,

Now count the lives who still need your light,
The hungry, the sick, the helpless,
Count the children who will die today
and imagine if with the breath of your body
you could help just one.

And know yourself as a child of the light.
You are the Goodness that cannot be extinguished,

The love that burns through the darkest night.
And perhaps,In turning
You will see what i have seen,that this day where everything seemed wrong,
was not your curse,It was your gift,

Your chance…

To find inside yourself a forgotten ‘thank you’,
To smile in the face of the grim suppressors,
To stand in the heart of the glowering darkness
And Face the scorching Heat Of Life.

P.S-:There are days when nothing seems right. When every shell you pick up on the winding shore is broken. When the silken treasure slips through your fingers too quickly. When comforts are empty. And the world is noise.

On those jagged edged days, when the wind is screaming.. And you find yourself all alone..
Its Just Written For the Inspiration.

║█║▌║█║▌│║▌█║▌║© Pretty Words Between The Sheets.

आजमा लो मुझे भी अपनी शायरी के लिए

ज़नाब कहते हैं मैं पेशे से दर्द ज़्यादा देती हूँ

 

Watch out…

Some events in life may take everything, leaving only important responsibilities between two.

Some events in life may take everything, leaving only important responsibilities between two.

It makes no difference if you loose anything left after ; loosing all indispensable things in life.

It makes no difference if you loose anything left after ; loosing all indispensable things in life.

You live for some wishes that are so special & precious that you can't compromise with another option; you either leave living or just leave it.

You live for some wishes that are so special and precious that you can’t compromise with another option; you either leave living or just leave it.

Struggling for each desire makes a man tire; Among those thousand wishes... every wish puts off the fire!!

Struggling for each desire makes a man tire;
Among those thousand wishes… every wish puts off the fire!!

If some people want you to behave 'slavish' just because they mull over you then kindly show them the way out of your life.

If some people want you to behave ‘slavish’ just because they mull over you then kindly show them the way out of your life.

Every parents have a special child...but its hard for a child to prove his or her specialty when parents loose faith in them.

Every parents have a special child…but its hard for a child to prove his or her specialty when parents loose faith in them.

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